" I don't want you to get any ideas." That is the response I got from the donor when I asked him if he wanted to go out to a nice dinner tonight. He didn't have to pay, didn't have to do anything, but show up and eat.

Now I ask you... what the hell kind of reply is that? What idea doesn't he want me to have? Does he think I'm going to seduce him? We have sex often enough that I sincerely doubt that he is concerned on that level. I'm already knocked up (no worry about that). Sheesh. I know he doesn't love me, all I wanted to do was have a nice dinner some place other than the dingy little bar that we frequent. Again, men ruin everything.